Today’s post is something that I think really hits people hard, something that we struggle with everyday.
Making yourself happy!
Everyone goes through tons of decisions throughout their daily lives, most based on what other people will think… it’s human nature to worry about the opinions of others around you.
But what about your own opinion? What do you think about that comfy shirt you want to wear or the new man/woman that your talking to…
Being a 21 year old college woman, I understand these thoughts and go through them on a regular basis. Recently, however, I have discovered a new mindset…
Why should it matter what the person working out next to you thinks about your hair?
Truth is…it doesn’t matter. And the more we realize that other people don’t notice us as much as we think they do, the better off you will feel.
I’m sure that many of you have heard the quote, “those who matter, don’t mind and those who mind, don’t matter.”
And this is literally one of the most truthful things I’ve ever heard. Think about who you care about and who cares about you. Think about whose opinion you really value…is it really the guy sitting next to you in class or is it a best friend you’ve had since your freshman year of high school?
Truth is…people judge, yes, but those who mean the most to you will support you regardless of their opinions.